Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Weird, Crazy, Funk......?

I didn't really know what to write these last couple weeks nor do I really know what to write now??! I will begin with some news that shook us the night before last. A friend that we work with on the Moringa project called us and said, "John Jay is missing have you heard from him or seen him?" I replied No and waited to hear of any more news. The following morning we received the phone call that he committed suicide.

Will and I stayed with John J and his family a couple months ago while working on the Moringa project. Words can't express how shocked we are. Will and I talked about how great of a family they were. Sitting down for dinner together, talking about the day, attending football games, and working on homework together. It is something that is hard for both of us to understand and cope with. Such a loving family man gone in just the blink of an eye. Here is the link to an article in the paper... I just don't really know what else to say right now? http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/news/html/20090407T200000-0500_149064_OBS_MANCHESTER_MOURNS_PASSING_OF_LEADING_BUSINESSMAN.asp

Of course when it rains it pours...therefore more depressing news. I went to visit the school garden yesterday and was saddened to see that it wasn't doing so well. The kids planted some seeds in seed trays a few weeks back- but someone neglected to water them. Therefore as of right now we will not be planting cabbage or cucumbers in the garden. Also someone accidentally left the gate open and a cow decided to go in and munch on corn and lettuce. The kids and I weeded what is left of their garden and talked about taking better care of it- I also found out the kids didn't plant the peas nor are they taking care of them. The principal hired someone to do it. I was saddened and upset with this realization. I suppose this is to be expected when doing development work ;)

Will's crop estimate program is sort-of off the ground. He turned in the necessary program but later found out they already had a program that they had created years ago- This program however doesn't calculate the monthly and yearly totals or carry over the crop data from month to month- which leaves the extension officer to calculate that. The program Will developed does all of that. When they came to do the training on the "new" program it happened to be the old one. Our extension officers were frustrated because they had taken two steps forward only to take four steps back. I suppose this is to be expected when doing development work ;)

On a lighter note- Last weekend we were able to hit up Treasure Beach and get some much needed relaxation. We both have some major sunburns- and we even applied sun screen- the sun must have been brutal! We enjoyed some yummy pizza and took a breather from this weird, crazy, sad, past couple weeks we've been having.

3 comments:

loverstreet said...

i am so sorry you two. losing someone you care about is always hard, but the element that he took his own life makes it that much more difficult to comprehend. i know no other words to say than that i am sorry for your loss.
i am glad you recognized that you needed a getaway and treasure beach looks beautiful from the pictures you've posted before. i hope the time there renewed you--even if it literally fried you!
miss you heaps and can't wait to see your faces this summer.

Grandma said...

Thank you for sharing your newest posting with us. You know that everyone that keeps up on your posting shares your saddness and disappointments with you even if we are not there. We also share your happy moments to. Thats what famly and friends do.
Lets hope there are brighter days ahead for you to are past due on lots of good moments other then taking weekend trips. Hope your sunburn is feeling better. We love and miss both of you and looking forward to you being home this summer. Will have lots of project for you to work on. Have a great Easter with Josh & Jesse and all of your other fiends. We all love and miss you both and stay safe.
Love ya lots
Grandma & Grandpa
BJ-Heidi-Lady-Shelby

Auntie said...

Hi Andrea and Will, There are no words to tell you my heart is with you two. It's never easy when someone decides to take there own life, and who its really hurting, the ones left behind to deal with the pain and loss, but remember him for who he was and his family and not for what he did. I'm sorry about all the wonderful work you are doing there going in the toilet. But you are trying and that is the important part, So I'm sending hugs your way and keep on plugging away. Can't wait to see you two in July...Keeping you and Will in our Prayers... Love You